Will you trust your husband who had nearly cheated on you that he never told other girls to be his mistresses?
I know it’s not a right thing to do, but I did check on his MSN chat history. I found out that he told one girl that he has a 21 years old girlfriend who know he’s married. He even invited the girl to be one of his mistresses! Furthermore, he offered the same thing to a few girls!
He told me that those are just jokes. He bluffs his friends that he has many girlfriends besides the wife (me). Should I trust him? I really don’t know. My mind is such a mess now!

4 comments so far
Whether or not you trust him with his answer the fact that it makes you feel bad should have been a clue that his “jokes” were hurtful. I recommend you ask him not to make such jokes. If he refuses, even by trying to play it off like you’re overreacting, it might be time to check out a marriage counselor. Good luck.
April 8th, 2008 at 4:29 am
Samuel> Thanks for your suggestion. He promised me that he’ll never make such jokes with his friends. I have no choice but to give him one last chance. By the way, I still love him very much.
April 8th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
I kinda agree with samuel on checking out a marriage counselor. you really freaked me out when u sent me the sms
April 9th, 2008 at 11:00 am
Jeffrey04> You’re overacting it man~~Anyway, everything is okay now. Thanks for your concern.
April 9th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
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